I had a problem with the primary tenet of Unfuck Your Habitat— I didn’t make my bed every day. And finally I realized— I hated my bedding. It was ‘left’ to me when my ex-fiancee dumped me a decade ago, and was literally falling apart.
TO THE IKEA!
That relationship also left me with some fears about spending money, so I had to talk myself into buying something pretty because it wasn’t the cheapest. This may have been by singing “Independent Women” by Destiny’s Child to myself.